About Tel from lily & White

natural & timeless wedding photographer in essex

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find out more about me, and my love for all things weddings

I’d be lying if I said I always dreamed of becoming a wedding photographer—or even working in photography at all, for that matter. Like many kids with a wild imagination, I once had ambitions of being a racing driver, sparked by an 8-year-old’s obsession with go-karts and speed.

Funnily enough, it was motorsport that first introduced me to photography, thanks to my dad. My journey into weddings came later, through a growing love of cameras and connecting with people. It wasn’t something I planned—it just naturally unfolded. And honestly, aside from my wife and kids, it’s the best thing that’s ever happened to me.


Beyond the camera, I’m a keen mountain biker, though ambition most definitely gets in the way of talent – a couple of broken ribs and fingers are testament to that! I indulge in too much coffee, but hey who doesn’t? Other than having an innate ability to constantly say “erm” far too much (you should hear me on Zoom calls), I generally LOVE life!

Fun facts about me you didn’t ask for, but I’m gonna tell you anyway : Before I was a photographer, I was full time plasterer – talk about diverse career path! The name Lily & White, wasn’t just something I pulled out of the air, or it felt “weddingy” (that’s actually a word too), It’s actually a nod to my childhood football team… The mighty Tottenham Hotspur – I know, I know, we might as well rent out our trophy cabinet as an air bnb, because it’s always empty.

Turning Regret Into Purpose — Why I Do What I Do

One of the main reasons I found myself drawn to wedding photography was a deep appreciation for the value of memories. Our own wedding photos—well, let’s just say they weren’t what we’d hoped for. In the kindest way possible, they were a bit of a let-down, and to this day, they’re tucked away on an old CD gathering dust. It remains one of our biggest regrets from the day.

That experience stayed with me. So when I began photographing weddings, I made a promise to myself: to always give my couples the very best of me—and the very best photography I can offer.

Family life means everything to me. My kids are my legacy, and over the years, my wife and I have captured so many beautiful memories of their lives. Of course, when I say family, this includes our furry ones too! Fin, our adorable but somewhat naughty French Bulldog, and our beautiful boy, our Cockerpoo, Rhemy (who we had to say goodbye to in December 2024, as he was too poorly to carry on 😢) have been such a wonderful addition to our family and of course have left indelible marks on all of us.

I truly believe your wedding day is the beginning of that same legacy—a foundation of images and moments that will bring joy not just to you, but to generations to come.


Tel went above and beyond to capture our special day

Tel arrived at the venue with such warmth and friendliness that it felt like we had known him for years. None of us had much experience with professional photos before, but Tel made us feel so comfortable. The final photos were absolutely stunning—we couldn’t be happier

– Kaitlin & Eren – vaulty manor, Essex

my wedding photography style & approach

My wedding photography style, from taking the images, to editing the images follows a path of being natural, timeless & true to life. My style was designed & born based on my ethos in life. Everything should be transparent, there should be no gimmicks, just raw & truthful moments that bring the emotion of a wedding to the forefront. There is some direction given to my couples, but it is led with a natural feel.

When you seek solace in the memories of happier moments, I aspire to capture photographs that fill you with pride and warmth. I aim to create authentic images that truly reflect your essence, free from any gimmicks or regrets—simply encapsulating you and your unique love story.